Saturday, May 7, 2016

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Some crazy troll accused me of "scamming" people with my blog. He also accused me of, what was it? "...tricking people into donating to [my] scam". While I generally let trolls be trolls and let them peacefully reside under bridges, I want to make a few points.

This blog. Do you see any ads on it? You better not, because I specifically set it up to not have any, and if you are seeing ads on this site, please shoot me a comment and tell me immediately and I will send the proper inquiries. Do you see a donation button? Then you are not on my blog and may be a victim of a phishing scam. Leave this page at once, and go to

I set this blog up for several reasons:

  • Journaling
    • I enjoy writing down my thoughts. It helps me think better, and stay sane.
  • Resources
    • I want to make sure that other people have access to the resources I had no idea existed.
    • I want to make sure that pedophiles know they are not alone, and that they have places to go to for help if they need it.
  • Advocating
    • Primary prevention is not nearly as represented by advocacy/prevention organizations as tertiary prevention, which relies on children to be abused before it becomes prevention.
    • Many people are misinformed or uneducated about who/what causes child sexual abuse.
    • Many people are unwilling to discuss or think about these subjects. 
  • Discussion
    • I suppose this falls in line with other stuff, but I want to generate conversation on these topics. 
    • I want to be controversial.
    • If people are talking about it, thinking about it, challenging myths and stereotypes, and thinking critically, then more people know the facts about abuse and can respond accordingly.
For a very brief period of time, I thought about forming a non-profit or starting some kind of organization. I rejected that idea for several reasons:
  • Money
    • Money is not the point of this, and I was afraid that starting anything more formal than me, this blog, and Twitter would change my motivations for doing this.
    • I do not want your money. 
    • Seriously, keep your money.
    • Better yet, go buy leaflets and copy-paste some of the information about child sexual abuse, and go hand it to people.
    • Donate to Stop It Now if you want to throw money at the problem of child sexual abuse. 
  • Time
    • My time is limited, and there is only so much I can do.
    • If I spend too much time on all this, I will lose whatever sanity I have left.
  • Accuracy
    • I suppose this is a control issue, but I want to make sure that the facts and ideas I support are based in reality, not the hype-driven madness that has landed the United States and other countries with laws that waste time and money being ineffective at keeping children safe.
  • Safety
    • I need to ensure that my efforts do not negatively affect my victim or his family, or impact my own family and friends.
    • I need to ensure that I remain safe from crazy people that might conveniently take stuff I say out of context.
  • Critical Thinking
    • I am not an expert and I will not have you treating me like one. 
    • I cite sources for facts, generally speaking.
    • I am not going to tell you what to think (except I just did).
If there was a point in there somewhere, I am not quite sure what it was. But I hope that answered some of your questions and concerns about this blog and why it exists. 

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